Breaking and Making...........

With a bruised heart and cut hands, we always say.."NEVER AGAIN. Never again,i will allow anyone to hurt me so badly. There will be a no second time"..Determined to put a full stop to our lives, thinking it to be the "the end"..But eventually, we realize it was just a comma and a passing phase, leaving us stronger than ever.

Heart breaks are common, but whats not common is the way people take it. Crying for days, locking oneself in a room, are usually the negative after effects for girls, and for boys they find solace in listening to music or by breaking stuffs(specially cell phones). The block buster one is deleting one's social network account, detaching oneself from the world and mourning for the dead relation. The worst cases are not these though. The ones who actually are having a miserable time are those people, who have a broad smile on their face. The general notion being that "they are not bothered", but trust me its the other way round. Hidding their grief, with extention on the lips is the saddest soul on the earth at that juncture.

Some say that, why would one choose to do so,its just a wrong perception. I just have one explaination, they dont want their sadness to act as a negative catalyst in someone elses life. Following the slogan, "live and let live."

The funny part for some girls being..that more than the grief of losing someone its more about whom will we blame for every little thing that goes wrong except for god,goverment and politics..."u are responsible for this"...will be a line that we wont be able to excrete from our system, leading to constipation jokes apart. We feel good when we blame others for the ups and down in our life.

The hope for things getting back to normal is something which is not very volatile. People dont get rid of it easily. There is a variation in the time span, for people to come out of the breaking stage and to enter into the making stage. One of my friend took somewhat 3 years to come out of it completely and move on. After the annoucement that he made, that he had finally moved on, his way of expressing  his happiness was "yes!!! yes!!! yes!!!!!..at last I did it". Hard it was, but the joy he got, after leaving his past far behind was unexplainable. Breaking up can be bad, but the making process of a different human being has to be better. The main ingredient being, the will to move on and accept life as it comes. With open arms i welcome both Sadness and happiness, to top it up with I have a little thrill and curiousity, to know whats instored more for me by FATE. A heart break doesnt stop you from breathing, then why to stop "living life king size"....
 And yes with a new zeal to experience the upcoming possible brand new relation,
I toast for the single heart broken women... ;-)