Time and again there has been onething that surely has not left me, at any foot step. And that is "misconception". Its like my shadow that follows me everywhere, no matter where I go. I always tried my level best to get rid of it, but my dear friend is too attached, to leave me all by myself. Its just like the fevicol ka jor, 'tutega nai".
In my teens, I always used to be troubled by the fact, that why is it, that its always me whom people dont tend to understand. I seriously thought things where wrong with me, but now when I sit to think over it, I dont know why, I feel, it was vice versa. We always try to explain others the real THING. But till when will we keep on doing it, till when??... there will be no end to it. Pleading and begging, clarifying that I am not wrong, is no more my cup of tea. If you are giving importance to all the crap what others say, justifies only onething, that you dont have faith in yourself.
Long gone are the days, when people thought they could shake or break me. If you don't want to understand, I simply don't want to explain. Feel free to have any notion about me, 'coz in any way this wont effect my life. I live life, as I want to, you do the same, then where lies the problem. As time passed I understood onething, that the ball is not always in your court, if people are against you accept it, they want you to react but dont give them what they want, and at the end, with no other way left, they will stop. "I cried the whole day, when one ofmy good friend stopped talking to me all of a sudden." said one of my friends. Onething that she should have understood was, her friend was never a good friend, if she would have been she wouldnt have left her for some flaws. We take vows when we get married, one of them is that "we will stay together in good or in bad", friendship also has this vow in its rule book, unspoken and unproclaimed. The people who want to walk out of our life, will eventually do it, no matter how much you try and hold them back. It just that, its hard to believe, but we are helpless. If your good friend walks out of your life, how long do you think you will shed tears?????????. You have to except the fact that they are no more a part of your life and that they are not interested to be one. Its of no use to wait for something that has gone with the wind. When we miss the chance to catch a bus, we simply curse our luck and wait for the other one to come, shouldnt we implement the same in our life. Accept life as it comes, whether good or bad.
In my teens, I always used to be troubled by the fact, that why is it, that its always me whom people dont tend to understand. I seriously thought things where wrong with me, but now when I sit to think over it, I dont know why, I feel, it was vice versa. We always try to explain others the real THING. But till when will we keep on doing it, till when??... there will be no end to it. Pleading and begging, clarifying that I am not wrong, is no more my cup of tea. If you are giving importance to all the crap what others say, justifies only onething, that you dont have faith in yourself.
Long gone are the days, when people thought they could shake or break me. If you don't want to understand, I simply don't want to explain. Feel free to have any notion about me, 'coz in any way this wont effect my life. I live life, as I want to, you do the same, then where lies the problem. As time passed I understood onething, that the ball is not always in your court, if people are against you accept it, they want you to react but dont give them what they want, and at the end, with no other way left, they will stop. "I cried the whole day, when one ofmy good friend stopped talking to me all of a sudden." said one of my friends. Onething that she should have understood was, her friend was never a good friend, if she would have been she wouldnt have left her for some flaws. We take vows when we get married, one of them is that "we will stay together in good or in bad", friendship also has this vow in its rule book, unspoken and unproclaimed. The people who want to walk out of our life, will eventually do it, no matter how much you try and hold them back. It just that, its hard to believe, but we are helpless. If your good friend walks out of your life, how long do you think you will shed tears?????????. You have to except the fact that they are no more a part of your life and that they are not interested to be one. Its of no use to wait for something that has gone with the wind. When we miss the chance to catch a bus, we simply curse our luck and wait for the other one to come, shouldnt we implement the same in our life. Accept life as it comes, whether good or bad.
Absolutely true Niki...i feel like ki tumne meri dil ki baat likh daali...Me too think da same...Whether u r wid sm1 or not, bt life juz goes on and on..better not to lament over da bygones..!!
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